The Difference

The Difference (Speaking from Experience)

 

 

I have been wondering today about something not-so-commonplace among women.

 

Squirting…

 

Now this is supposed to be the ultimate proof that a man has satisfied his woman. He's giving it to her hard and heavy just the way she screams for it and suddenly there's this release of liquid from her vaginal region that signifies she's had the Big O. She's all uber-sensitive and telling him how much she loves him and he's got his ego in hyper drive because he made his woman squirt her feminine goodness all over the place. But here's what I'm wondering:

 

Did he

REALLY make her have that big O??

 

What if he didn't???

 

Does he even know the difference????? *GASP*

 

Sadly, folks, I'm beginning to think that most men/women don't.

 

If you're squeamish about this kind of stuff, now is the time to leave the post ---------------------------------------------------------->

 

Personally, I have only ever experienced an orgasm from intercourse twice in my life (and you would not

BELIEVE the guy that did it). I have had an orgasm during intercourse with the help of a vibrator on my button, but it was the vibe that produced the Big O, not the intercourse itself. Now that's not a slight to the man I was with. I'm just not an intercourse-orgasmer. Now I can have an orgasm all day long from direct clitoral stimulation, be it with a toy or with a damn good tongue. I have even squirted about 3 times during an orgasm from oral, and numerous times during an orgasm thru masturbation. But never from an orgasm during intercourse. I don't know many women who have, actually. But there still seems to be some kind of misinterpretation on grown folks' part as to just what is happening when a woman squirts.

 

A good friend quoted a 'freaky fact' that said that when a woman squirts it is roughly 90%

URINE and 10%

EJACULATE (I'm paraphrasing here). Now most folks will argue that a woman can't pass urine when she's having sex. And why not? When enough pressure is exerted on the bladder urine

WILL come out, and it has nothing to do with weak urethral muscles. It has everything to do with the laws of nature. Regardless of how strong a balloon is, drop a boulder on it and it will pop. Same with pressure on the bladder. If you've got a man or a woman with a good-sized strap pounding the pussy right and long enough and you will make a woman with a steel trap on her urethra squirt. It's just physics.

 

And have you ever

SMELLED the spot left after a good squirt?

 

Yuck!!

 

So, if it's entirely possible to put enough pressure on a woman's bladder to make her pee/squirt, isn't it also possible to

ASSUME that her squirting is an orgasm when it really isn't? Ask a woman to describe her orgasm and you may get 50 different descriptions from the poetic to the straight forward. Ask a woman who has squirted to describe it and if the descriptions are the same then you've probably got a woman who doesn't know the difference and has probably never had an orgasm. There is definitely a difference. An orgasm usually includes contracting of internal muscles in the vagina, which can exert enough pressure to cause squirting, but not always. It's usually caused by the intensity of nerve stimulation to the clitoris. Ask that same woman about a soul-stirring orgasm and watch how she reacts. Squirting usually doesn't bring the same vaginal reaction, and the liquid flow definitely isn't the same. Vaginal fluids usually have some thickness to them, while squirted liquid doesn’t. Lastly, the

TASTE is different.  Trust me on that one. Last thing you want is a mouth full of squirt, so get schooled before you do. I think it would be a good idea for both men AND women to really learn the difference. It will save a lot of men folk from getting their egos busted by a ball-breaking bitch, and keep a lot of women from having to lie to protect somebody's fragile manhood.

 

I will say that I find it rather cute that a man/woman will say, "You know you're about to squirt because it feels like you're about to pee." Um… HELLO?? Isn't that what it feels like when you really DO have to pee? So what makes you think it's NOT pee?? It's like they dismiss the whole concept of it being part urine so that they don't have to face the reality of being pissed on. It's like being pissed on will just ruin the whole act of sex or something.

 

Fine. Whatever.

 

Just remember this: she probably didn't have that Big O like you assumed she did.

 

And all you got was a golden shower for your effort…